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# Irwin & Irwin LLP: Orange County Divorce Attorneys

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- [Congratulations to Jackie Uberin on Her 2027 Rising Stars Selection](https://www.irwinirwin.com/congratulations-to-jackie-uberin-on-her-2027-rising-stars-selection/): We are proud to share that Irwin & Irwin attorney Jaquelina “Jackie” Uberin has been selected to the 2027 Rising Stars list for family law.
- [Irwin & Irwin Celebrates 15 Years](https://www.irwinirwin.com/irwin-irwin-celebrates-15-years/): This year marks 15 years since we opened Irwin & Irwin in 2011.
- [Are You Responsible for Your Spouse’s Debt After Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/are-you-responsible-for-your-spouses-debt-after-divorce/): Divorce does not always end your connection to debts created during the marriage. A California family court can assign a debt to your spouse, yet a lender may still pursue you if your name remains on the account.
- [The Impact of a Parent’s Criminal Record on Custody Decisions](https://www.irwinirwin.com/the-impact-of-a-parents-criminal-record-on-custody-decisions/): A parent’s criminal record can affect a California custody case, but it does not automatically decide the outcome. The court looks at the child’s best interest, the type of offense, how long ago it happened, whether the child or other parent was affected, and whether there are current safety concerns.
- [Who Claims the Kids on Their Taxes After Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/who-claims-the-kids-on-their-taxes-after-divorce/): At Irwin & Irwin, LLP, we often hear this question from parents working through divorce: Who claims the kids on their taxes after divorce? The answer depends on more than what your judgment says. Federal tax rules usually control, and the IRS has its own definition of which parent may claim a child in a given tax year.
- [How Do You Know When Your Marriage Is Over?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-do-you-know-when-your-marriage-is-over/): When people ask, how do you know when your marriage is over, they are usually not looking for one dramatic moment. Most of the time, it is a slow realization that the relationship no longer feels safe, connected, or workable. At Irwin & Irwin, LLP, we speak with people throughout Orange County, Los Angeles County, Riverside County, and nearby areas who have spent months or years asking themselves this question before they ever contact a lawyer.
- [What to Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Move Out During Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-to-do-if-your-spouse-refuses-to-move-out-during-divorce/): At Irwin & Irwin,LLP, we often hear from clients who are beginning the divorce process but are still living under the same roof as their spouse. Tension builds quickly in these situations, especially when one spouse refuses to leave the home. In California, neither spouse is legally required to move out just because a divorce has been filed, which can make an already difficult process even more stressful. However, there are legal options and practical steps that may help.
- [What Is Considered Non-Marital Property in a California Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-is-considered-non-marital-property-in-a-california-divorce/): Dividing property during divorce can quickly become one of the most contested parts of the process. California is a community property state, which means that most assets and debts acquired during the marriage are considered jointly owned. However, not everything falls into that category. Some property is classified as separate, and is not subject to division.
- [Wishing You a Peaceful Holiday Season](https://www.irwinirwin.com/wishing-you-a-peaceful-holiday-season/): As the year comes to a close, we want to take a moment to thank each of you who trusted Irwin & Irwin with your family law matters in 2025. Whether we helped you navigate a divorce, custody issue, support matter, or served as minors’ counsel for your child, we know these are not just legal cases, they are deeply personal situations that affect your daily life and your future.
- [When One Parent Wants to Travel Over the Holidays: Legal Considerations in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/when-one-parent-wants-to-travel-over-the-holidays-legal-considerations-in-california/): At Irwin & Irwin, we understand how emotional and complicated the holidays can be for separated or divorced parents. Travel plans, especially those involving out-of-town or out-of-state trips, often become a point of conflict when they intersect with existing custody or visitation orders. If one parent wants to travel with the children during the holiday season, several legal issues need to be considered.
- [October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month](https://www.irwinirwin.com/october-is-domestic-violence-awareness-month/): October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and at Irwin & Irwin, we want to speak directly to those who feel trapped, unsure, or silenced in their own homes. If that is you, or someone close to you, we want you to know that there are legal protections available. Abuse can take many forms. The law in California recognizes that, and so do we.
- [Is Divorce at 60 Worth It? A Closer Look at the Legal and Personal Impact](https://www.irwinirwin.com/is-it-worth-divorcing-at-60/): At Irwin & Irwin, we often speak with individuals in their 60s who never expected to be considering divorce at this stage in life. After decades of marriage, shared milestones, and raising children, the thought of starting over can feel overwhelming. Yet for many, the decision to divorce in what some call the “silver era” is not about giving up, it is about choosing peace, independence, or a different kind of happiness in the years ahead.
- [Money-Saving Tips to Lower Legal Fees During Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/money-saving-tips-to-lower-legal-fees-during-divorce/): At Irwin & Irwin, we understand that divorce is not only emotionally difficult but can also place a financial burden on families. While some legal expenses are unavoidable, there are practical ways to keep your legal fees manageable without putting your case at risk. The following tips can help you stay focused, stay organized, and avoid unnecessary costs during your divorce.
- [How Does Adultery Affect Divorce in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-does-adultery-affect-divorce-in-california/): At Irwin & Irwin, we often meet clients who are navigating the emotional strain of discovering a spouse’s infidelity. One of the first questions they ask is whether adultery will affect their divorce case. In California, the answer is more complicated than most expect.
- [How to Modify a Custody Order in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-modify-a-custody-order-in-california/): Life changes. What worked for your family at the time of a custody order may no longer meet your child’s needs. At Irwin & Irwin, we help parents throughout Orange, Los Angeles, Riverside, and San Bernardino counties understand how to request modifications to existing custody arrangements in California.
- [Should We Sign a Prenup Before Getting Married?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/should-we-sign-a-prenup-before-getting-married/): Getting married is a major milestone, and while most couples are focused on building a future together, some also consider how to protect that future. At Irwin & Irwin, we often counsel clients who are planning to marry and want to know whether a prenuptial agreement is appropriate.
- [Tips for Co-Parenting Success After Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/tips-for-co-parenting-success-after-divorce/): Co-parenting after divorce can be challenging, especially when emotions are still raw. At Irwin & Irwin, we work with many parents who want to build a stable, supportive environment for their children despite the changes in the family structure. While no plan is perfect, certain habits and strategies can make shared parenting more manageable and effective.
- [Understanding the Role of Step-Parents, Grandparents, and New Partners in California Custody Cases](https://www.irwinirwin.com/understanding-the-role-of-step-parents-grandparents-and-new-partners-in-california-custody-cases/): Custody disputes in California often involve more than just parents. Step-parents, grandparents, and new partners can all play a role in a child’s life, and in some cases, they may have legal rights or responsibilities. Understanding how family courts consider these relationships can help you handle custody proceedings effectively.
- [Managing Unexpected Expenses During Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/managing-unexpected-expenses-during-divorce/): Divorce can bring financial uncertainty, and unexpected expenses often arise. While legal fees and court costs are expected, many people overlook hidden expenses such as new living arrangements, health insurance changes, and tax implications. Planning for these costs can help you stay financially stable during and after divorce.
- [Understanding Parental Alienation and Its Impact on Parent-Child Relationships](https://www.irwinirwin.com/understanding-parental-alienation-and-its-impact-on-parent-child-relationships/): Parental alienation occurs when one parent deliberately influences a child to reject or fear the other parent without justification. This can happen through negative comments, limiting contact, or creating false accusations. Over time, parental alienation can damage the child’s emotional well-being and strain the parent-child relationship.
- [Does Alimony End if I Start Living with Someone New?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/does-alimony-end-if-i-start-living-with-someone-new/): Spousal support, commonly known as alimony, is meant to provide financial assistance to a former spouse after a divorce. If you start living with a new partner, your ex-spouse may seek to reduce or terminate alimony. In California, cohabitation can impact spousal support, but it does not automatically end payments.
- [Important Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney About Child Custody](https://www.irwinirwin.com/important-questions-to-ask-your-divorce-attorney-about-child-custody/): Child custody is often the most emotional and challenging part of a divorce. If you are facing a custody dispute, it is important to understand how decisions are made and what to expect throughout the process. At Irwin & Irwin, we focus on helping parents handle custody matters while protecting their parental rights and their child’s best interests.
- [Talking to Your Kids About Divorce: Key Tips to Help Them Understand](https://www.irwinirwin.com/talking-to-your-kids-about-divorce-key-tips-to-help-them-understand/): Divorce is difficult for everyone involved, but it can be especially confusing and overwhelming for children. They may have questions, fears, and emotions they do not know how to express. How you approach the conversation can have a lasting impact on their ability to cope with the changes.
- [Addressing the Emotional Side of Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/addressing-the-emotional-side-of-divorce/): Divorce is not just a legal or financial process—it is an emotional journey that affects every aspect of a person’s life. Many individuals focus solely on resolving the legal and financial aspects of their divorce, leaving the emotional struggles unaddressed. This can lead to ongoing challenges in future relationships, co-parenting dynamics, and overall well-being. In this post, we will explore the concept of the "emotional divorce" and why addressing these feelings is crucial for healing and growth.
- [Before You Decide on Divorce: What to Consider](https://www.irwinirwin.com/before-you-decide-on-divorce-what-to-consider/): In today’s world, relationships can sometimes feel disposable. Divorce often seems like the escape hatch for a marriage that feels like “relationship jail.” But what if the dissatisfaction in your marriage is not solely due to your partner? What if ending your marriage does not fix the problem?
- [How Emotional Pain in Divorce Affects Parents and Children](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-emotional-pain-in-divorce-affects-parents-and-children/): Divorce is often described as one of the most emotionally challenging experiences a person can endure. Unlike physical pain, which can be identified and treated, emotional pain is invisible, intangible, and often overwhelming. For parents going through divorce, this emotional turmoil can spill over into their relationship with their children, potentially leaving lasting scars. In this post, we will explore how emotional struggles during divorce can affect both parents and children, and what can be done to minimize the impact.
- [What You Need to Know About Changing Your Name After Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-you-need-to-know-about-changing-your-name-after-divorce/): If you are considering changing your name after a divorce in California, it is often an important personal decision with both emotional and practical aspects. For many, reclaiming a former name can feel like a fresh start. Understanding the process in California can help you take the necessary steps to make it official.
- [7 Tips for Divorcing with a Special Needs Child](https://www.irwinirwin.com/7-tips-for-divorcing-with-a-special-needs-child/): Divorcing with a special needs child requires unique considerations to support their well-being, stability, and ongoing care. From creating effective custody arrangements to ensuring consistent financial support, thoughtful planning can make a difference for both parents and children navigating this transition. Here are some tips for approaching divorce with a focus on the needs of your special needs child.
- [Are Your Social Media Pages Private During a Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/are-your-social-media-pages-private-during-a-divorce/): In today’s digital world, social media plays a central role in our lives. However, when going through a divorce, what you post on social media can become more significant than you might expect. Many people assume their social media accounts are “private” and protected from scrutiny during divorce proceedings, but the reality is that your posts can be accessed and used as evidence in court.
- [Using Technology to Stay Connected with Your Kids After Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/using-technology-to-stay-connected-with-your-kids-after-divorce/): After a divorce, maintaining a close connection with your children can become more challenging, especially if you and your ex-spouse share custody or live in different locations. Fortunately, technology offers many ways to stay involved and communicate regularly, helping bridge any physical distance between you and your kids. Here are some effective ways to use technology to strengthen your bond with your children after divorce.
- [Common Divorce Mistakes to Avoid](https://www.irwinirwin.com/common-divorce-mistakes-to-avoid/): Divorce can be a challenging time filled with emotional and financial uncertainty. During this period, it’s common for people to make decisions that feel right in the moment but lead to complications later on. By being aware of common pitfalls, you can help protect your interests and set yourself up for a smoother process.
- [Helping Women and Their Pets Escape Domestic Violence: The Purple Leash Project](https://www.irwinirwin.com/helping-women-and-their-pets-escape-domestic-violence-the-purple-leash-project/): For many women in abusive relationships, leaving is a difficult decision that becomes even more complicated when pets are involved. Abusers often use threats against pets as a form of control, making survivors fear for their animals' safety. Sadly, a significant number of domestic violence shelters are not equipped to house pets, forcing women to make an impossible choice: stay in a harmful environment or leave and abandon their beloved pets.
- [Understanding the Tax Implications in High Asset Divorces](https://www.irwinirwin.com/understanding-the-tax-implications-in-high-asset-divorces/): Dividing assets during a divorce is always complex, but in high asset divorces, the stakes are even higher. These cases often involve large financial holdings such as real estate, stocks, business interests, and retirement accounts. While it may seem simple to split these assets down the middle, one common mistake many people make is failing to account for the tax implications of these transfers. Not all assets are created equal when it comes to taxes, and overlooking this can lead to unexpected financial burdens down the road.
- [How to Remove an Ex-Spouse from a Mortgage After Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-remove-an-ex-spouse-from-a-mortgage-after-divorce/): Dividing property during a divorce is often one of the most challenging parts of the process, especially when it comes to the family home. Even after reaching an agreement on who will keep the house, there is still the issue of the mortgage. If both spouses' names are on the mortgage, it is important to take steps to remove the ex-spouse who will no longer own the home. Failing to do this can lead to serious financial and legal complications for both parties. Here’s what you need to know about removing an ex-spouse from a mortgage after divorce.
- [How Bankruptcy Can Affect Your Divorce in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-bankruptcy-can-affect-your-divorce-in-california/): Divorce and bankruptcy are two of the most stressful life events a person can experience. Unfortunately, for some individuals, these challenges overlap. If you and your spouse are facing significant financial difficulties along with the end of your marriage, you may be wondering how filing for bankruptcy could impact your divorce proceedings. In California, where community property laws dictate asset division, the timing and type of bankruptcy can play a major role in how your divorce unfolds. Understanding how bankruptcy affects divorce can help you make informed decisions during this difficult time.
- [What Can and Cannot Be Included in a California Prenup?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-can-and-cannot-be-included-in-a-california-prenup/): A prenuptial agreement, commonly known as a "prenup," can provide clarity and peace of mind for couples before they marry. However, it is important to understand what can and cannot be included in a California prenuptial agreement to keep it valid and enforceable.
- [Top Mistakes to Avoid in High Asset Divorces](https://www.irwinirwin.com/top-mistakes-to-avoid-in-high-asset-divorces/): Divorces involving significant assets can be complex and emotionally challenging. In these cases, it is especially important to be mindful of decisions made during the process, as even small mistakes can have long-lasting financial consequences. Whether dealing with substantial real estate holdings, business interests, or investment portfolios, avoiding common errors can help protect your financial future.
- [Does California Recognize Common Law Marriage?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/does-california-recognize-common-law-marriage/): If you have been in a long-term relationship and lived together for years, you may wonder if California recognizes common law marriage. Many people believe that living together for a certain period means they have the same legal rights as married couples. However, the laws in California regarding common law marriage are clear, and it is important to understand how these laws may affect your relationship and legal rights.
- [Joint vs. Sole Custody: Which Arrangement is Best for Your Family?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/joint-vs-sole-custody-which-arrangement-is-best-for-your-family/): Deciding on child custody arrangements is one of the toughest choices divorcing parents face. This isn't just a legal decision; it's about figuring out what's best for your child and how to move forward as co-parents in a new, separate life. The choice between joint and sole custody can feel overwhelming, but understanding the differences between these arrangements—and what might work best for your family—can help you make a decision with confidence.
- [How Domestic Violence Influences Alimony Decisions in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-domestic-violence-influences-alimony-decisions-in-california/): When a marriage ends, the complexities of alimony (or spousal support) come to the forefront of divorce proceedings. However, when domestic violence is involved, the situation becomes even more sensitive, shaping the decisions around alimony in significant ways. In California, the law takes a clear stance on protecting victims and ensuring fair treatment during these difficult times.
- [How to Get a Minor’s Counsel Appointed in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-get-a-minors-counsel-appointed-in-california/): When facing a family law issue in California, particularly those involving children, you may come across a situation where a minor's counsel is considered. A minor’s counsel is an attorney appointed specifically to represent the interests of the child or children involved in the case. This is often seen in divorce cases, custody disputes, or other scenarios where the child's welfare and preferences need clear and direct representation.
- [What is considered income when it comes to child support in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-is-considered-income-when-it-comes-to-child-support-in-california/): When it comes to figuring out how child support is calculated, California looks closely at the income of both parents. But what exactly does "income" mean in this context? It's not just about what you earn from your job. Let's break it down in a way that's easy to understand.
- [Debunking Common Myths About California Prenuptial Agreements](https://www.irwinirwin.com/debunking-common-myths-about-california-prenuptial-agreements/): Prenuptial agreements, often simply referred to as prenups, are legal documents that outline how a couple's assets will be divided in the event of a divorce. They are a vital tool for protecting one's assets and can provide a sense of security for both parties entering a marriage. Despite their importance, there are several myths and misconceptions surrounding prenuptial agreements that can create confusion and hesitation. The Prenuptial Agreement Attorneys at Irwin & Irwin, encounter myths frequently and feel it is important to address some of them to provide clarity for those considering a prenuptial agreement.
- [How To Serve Divorce Papers In California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-serve-divorce-papers-in-california/): Getting a divorce can be an emotionally charged and stressful process. In California, as in other states, there are specific legal procedures that must be followed, one of which is serving divorce papers to your spouse. This is a key step in initiating the divorce process. The Orange County Divorce Attorneys at Irwin & Irwin will guide you through the process of serving divorce papers in California, addressing any concerns or questions you might have.
- [Does a Child’s Preference Affect Custody Decisions in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/does-a-childs-preference-affect-custody-decisions-in-california/): Going through a divorce is never easy, and it becomes even more challenging when there are children involved. One of the many questions that parents often have is whether their child’s preference will be considered by the court in determining child custody. In California, the answer is yes, but there are several factors that the court will consider. The Orange County child custody attorneys at Irwin & Irwin are here to help shed some light on the subject.
- [How Family Code 2030 Brings Fairness to Divorce in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-family-code-2030-brings-fairness-to-divorce-in-california/): Going through a divorce is never easy, and financial disparities between parties can make the process even more challenging. In California, Family Code 2030 aims to level the playing field in divorce cases. If you are in the midst of a divorce, understanding this code may be vital to your legal strategy.
- [Facing a Gavron Warning in Your Divorce? What You Need to Know](https://www.irwinirwin.com/facing-a-gavron-warning-in-your-divorce-what-you-need-to-know/): Spousal support is a vital aspect of many divorce proceedings in California, designed to provide financial assistance to a lesser-earning spouse after separation. Understanding various legal warnings and notices related to spousal support is key, especially if you've been issued a Gavron warning.
- [Divorce and Custody Cases Involving Same-Sex Couples](https://www.irwinirwin.com/divorce-and-custody-cases-involving-same-sex-couples/): The intricacies of divorce are challenging, no matter the circumstances. If you're part of a same-sex couple in California, you may face unique considerations, especially when children are involved. The Orange County divorce attorneys at Irwin & Irwin are here to help you understand these complexities and guide you through your journey.
- [How to Protect Your Assets Before a Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-protect-your-assets-before-a-divorce/): Navigating a divorce can be an overwhelming process, particularly when it comes to the financial aspect. Protecting your assets before a divorce is paramount, and understanding how to do so effectively within the context of California's unique laws is key. The Orange County divorce attorneys at Irwin & Irwin, are committed to providing the guidance you need during this challenging time.
- [Dealing with Financial Fraud during a Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/dealing-with-financial-fraud-during-a-divorce/): Divorce is often a complex and emotional process, but when financial fraud comes into play, it adds an extra layer of difficulty and strain. It's important to have a strong understanding of financial fraud within a divorce context, know how to identify it and understand what steps to take should you suspect it. The Orange County divorce attorneys at Irwin & Irwin, are committed to guiding you through the complexities of this issue.
- [Establishing Paternity in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/establishing-paternity-in-california/): If you're navigating the complex terrain of establishing paternity in California, it's important to understand the intricacies of the process. Paternity refers to the legal recognition of a child's biological father, and its establishment holds significant implications for the rights and responsibilities of all involved parties.
- [The Six-Month Waiting Period for a California Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/the-six-month-waiting-period-for-a-california-divorce/): The process of divorce can be a complex journey, fraught with emotional distress and logistical challenges. A particular aspect that confounds those navigating a divorce in California is the state-mandated six-month waiting period. A clear understanding of this period is instrumental in reducing the anxieties of divorce and in avoiding potential errors.
- [Domestic Violence and Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/domestic-violence-and-divorce/): The purpose of domestic violence laws in California is to keep homes safe and to protect individuals from abuse by other household members. Because married couples live together under the same roof, domestic violence laws apply to married couples. In particular, California’s domestic violence laws protect against abuse that one spouse commits against the other spouse. In cases where a married couple has children, and the couple decides to divorce, the question of whether the marriage involved domestic violence will play an influential role when it comes to deciding issues regarding property division and support.
- [Does Common-Law Marriage Still Exist in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/does-common-law-marriage-still-exist-in-california/): The concept of “common law marriage” typically arises in the context of couples who live together, have joint financial accounts, and have children in common but who never participate in an official ceremony. California ceased recognizing common-law marriage more than a century ago. However, there are certain exceptions that may apply, depending upon a specific couple’s circumstances.
- [Cohabitation and Alimony in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/cohabitation-and-alimony-in-california/): If the recipient of alimony in a California divorce begins cohabitating with someone else post-divorce, it can affect their alimony, but this is not always the case. In other words, alimony considerations are complex, and having an experienced California divorce attorney on your side is the surest means of protecting your financial rights moving forward.
- [Can Child Custody Be Revoked in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/can-child-custody-be-revoked-in-california/): Once you’ve made your way through the challenging legal maze of obtaining child custody orders from the court either as the result of a divorce or breakup, you may think that’s the end of the matter. Other than potential child custody modifications, such is generally the case. There are, however, extreme instances when California courts revoke child custody entirely. If you have concerns about your ex’s ability to parent your shared children, don’t wait to reach out for the skilled legal guidance of an experienced California child custody attorney.
- [Can Counseling Be Ordered in Divorce and Child Custody Cases?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/can-counseling-be-ordered-in-divorce-and-child-custody-cases/): When California courts are faced with child custody cases – whether as a result of divorce, a child custody modification, or a child custody matter outside of marriage – it always focuses on the best interests of the involved children. Further, California courts have considerable discretion in the matter, which means they can order counseling when it is deemed appropriate, and such practices are not uncommon when there is considerable distance between each parent’s position on the matter and they show little ability or inclination to bridge the gap. If you are facing a child custody concern, an experienced California child custody attorney can help.
- [California Spousal Support and Vocational Evaluations](https://www.irwinirwin.com/california-spousal-support-and-vocational-evaluations/): To receive spousal support in California – whether while the divorce is pending or post-divorce – the recipient must demonstrate a verifiable need, and the payor must have the means to pay. While it may sound straightforward, this aspect of divorce often becomes quite complicated and can stall the legal process considerably.
- [Can a DUI Impact Child Custody in California?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/can-a-dui-impact-child-custody-in-california/): Child custody concerns affect your parental rights and your relationship with your children, which makes them of paramount importance. When California courts make child custody determinations, they are guided by the children’s best interests, and as such, a wide range of factors are considered. If you’re facing a DUI charge or have a DUI conviction in your past, it can affect the outcome of your child custody case, which makes having an experienced California child custody attorney on your side well-advised.
- [Can a Father Get Full Custody?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/can-a-father-get-full-custody/): In California, child custody matters are always guided by the best interests of the children, and toward this end, a variety of factors are considered. One primary matter, however, that does not play a role in child custody determinations is the gender of the parent. In other words, California courts do not favor mothers when it comes to awarding custody, and fathers can get full custody. If you are facing a child custody case, it’s time to consult with an experienced California child custody attorney.
- [California Paternity Testing Laws](https://www.irwinirwin.com/california-paternity-testing-laws/): Paternity is a crucial factor in many different types of legal family matters. Both parents are responsible for the financial and physical well-being of their children. Sometimes it takes paternity testing to invoke the rights and responsibilities of parenthood. Establishing paternity allows fathers to visit and seek custody of their children. It also will enable mothers to seek child support. Additionally, children benefit from established paternity in several ways, such as knowing their genetics and being entitled to certain insurance coverage and government or retirement benefits.
- [California Same-Sex Divorce Statistics](https://www.irwinirwin.com/california-same-sex-divorce-statistics/): Same-sex marriages can be quite different from heterosexual marriages, including the inherent and unique challenges they face, such as those surrounding stigmas, employment discrimination, unaccepting families of origin, and creating a family for themselves. However, all marriages, no matter the gender or sexuality of those entering them, have some commonalities. One of these commonalities is divorce, and all marriages have the potential to end in one.
- [California Spousal Support and Domestic Violence](https://www.irwinirwin.com/california-spousal-support-and-domestic-violence/): It’s common knowledge that California is a no-fault state when it comes to divorce. However, many spouses are surprised to learn that there are certain factors involved in divorce and family law in which fault can actually impact the outcome. For example, a domestic violence conviction is one of those factors, and it can affect California spousal support.
- [Beware of Lawyers Who Advertise as Aggressive](https://www.irwinirwin.com/beware-of-lawyers-who-advertise-as-aggressive/): If you have been harmed as a result of someone else’s negligence, are harmed on the job, or are facing a divorce, seeking the compensation to which you are entitled – or the divorce terms that support your financial and parental rights – can play a pivotal role in your future. As such, having an experienced California personal injury lawyer, workers’ compensation lawyer, or divorce lawyer on your side is always in your best interest, but beware lawyers who bill themselves as aggressive rather than experienced, compassionate, and focused – along with a long list of other important attributes – you may not receive the kind of legal guidance you need or for which you are looking.
- [California Child Custody Rights for Unmarried Parents](https://www.irwinirwin.com/california-child-custody-rights-for-unmarried-parents/): If you have a child, your rights as a parent – in terms of child custody – are naturally a top priority, but if you are not married, you may have concerns about what your child custody rights are, and you are well advised to pursue these concerns. In California, the mother of any child who is born outside of marriage has full legal and physical custody by dint of her being the biological mother – and she need not take any further legal steps to obtain child custody rights. From here, however, things tend to become far more complicated, and it’s wise to have an experienced California child custody attorney in your corner.
- [Do I Have to Be the Victim of Physical Violence to Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/do-i-have-to-be-the-victim-of-physical-violence-to-get-a-domestic-violence-restraining-order/): Better understanding the domestic violence laws and protections in California can help you better protect yourself from the effects of this powerful form of abuse, and the most important step you can take is reaching out to the professional legal counsel of an experienced California domestic violence attorney.
- [What Is a Parentage Action?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-is-a-parentage-action/): In California, a parentage action – or parentage case – determines who a child’s legal parents are (when this issue is not resolved). Parentage actions are also called paternity cases, and the legalities tend to be challenging. When a couple is married at the time of a child’s birth, the issue of parentage is generally established – the law presumes that the married individuals are the child’s parents (unless provided with a reason to believe otherwise). When the parents are not married, however, the issue of parentage becomes more complicated and needs to be established legally. If you are facing a parentage concern, don’t wait to reach out to an experienced California family law attorney for the legal guidance you need.
- [Who Can Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/who-can-get-a-domestic-violence-restraining-order/): If you are in a situation in which you believe you need protection for your own safety (in relation to your home life), taking swift action is always advised. A dedicated California family law attorney with considerable experience successfully handling domestic violence restraining orders will help to ensure that you obtain the legal protection you need when you need it, which makes seeking professional legal guidance paramount. Better understanding these protection orders and who they assist, however, can help you better assess your own situation and can help guide you toward the legal counsel you need.
- [7 Tips When Preparing for a DNA Paternity Test](https://www.irwinirwin.com/7-tips-when-preparing-for-a-dna-paternity-test/): In the State of California, paternity (identifying a child’s father) is established automatically when the parents are married at the time of the child’s birth. If you and your child’s mother are not married, however, your paternity will need to be determined. This can be accomplished by both of you signing a Voluntary Declaration of Paternity, but if this is not in the cards, a DNA paternity test is required. If you have questions or concerns regarding a paternity matter, don’t wait to reach out to an experienced California family law attorney who has a wealth of experience handling these often-challenging cases.
- [I Want a Prenup, but I Can’t Convince My Future Spouse](https://www.irwinirwin.com/i-want-a-prenup-but-i-cant-convince-my-future-spouse/): There is no denying that prenuptial agreements have a bad reputation. Many people see them as a way to focus on ending the marriage before it’s even begun, and the media hype doesn’t do these legal contracts any favors. The fact of the matter is, however, that prenuptial agreements can make good financial sense and are rarely implemented in bad faith – or as a sort of get out of jail free card.
- [What Is the Difference between Custody, Parentage, and Paternity?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-is-the-difference-between-custody-parentage-and-paternity/): The terms custody, parentage, and paternity are used frequently in family law, but the distinctions between them can lead to confusion. Because understanding your rights as a parent is paramount, better understanding the related terminology is an excellent idea. If you have a legal concern related to custody, parentage, or paternity, seeking the professional legal counsel of an experienced California family law attorney is in your best interest.
- [How Do I Bring a Parentage Action?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-do-i-bring-a-parentage-action/): To put it as simply as possible, parentage generally refers to a person being the legal parent of a child. The term is most often used in the context of a father in a situation when there is a question about paternity. 
- [I don’t want a prenup, but my future spouse does](https://www.irwinirwin.com/i-dont-want-a-prenup-but-my-future-spouse-does/): Perhaps you just proposed marriage to your partner, or maybe you recently accepted the proposal, and things appear to be going swimmingly until the topic of a prenuptial agreement (also known as a premarital or antenuptial agreement) comes up. This will be a major problem because while your partner insists it is a good idea, you have many concerns.
- [Prenuptial Agreements and the Family Business](https://www.irwinirwin.com/prenuptial-agreements-and-the-family-business/): When a couple is planning to marry, there is often not much consideration given to what would happen should the duo later decide to get divorced. Nonetheless, a prenuptial agreement (sometimes referred to as a premarital or antenuptial agreement) is an essential consideration for any person who happens to be entering a marriage while owning their own business.
- [Why Is It Important To Establish Paternity?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/why-is-it-important-to-establish-paternity/): When any child is born, there is no doubt about the identity of the legal and biological mother of the child unless the woman forfeits those rights in the case of an adoption. While husbands may be presumed to be biological fathers when the mother is married, unwed couples do not get the same presumption.
- [Are There Drawbacks to a Prenuptial Agreement?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/are-there-drawbacks-to-a-prenuptial-agreement/): 20 years ago, only about five to 10 percent of American couples executed a prenuptial agreement before tying the knot. These agreements have become increasingly popular as more people realize their benefits. Millennials are also getting married later in life, giving them more to protect as they enter into marriage. As a result, there's been a fivefold increase in prenuptial agreements over the past 20 years. With so many benefits, it's easy to see why it's a good idea for engaged couples to draft a prenup agreement but are there also some drawbacks they need to consider? Do those drawbacks outweigh the benefits?
- [What a DVRO Can and Can’t Do](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-a-dvro-can-and-cant-do/): A domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) is available to help legally protect victims of domestic violence in California. The court issues a DVRO when it determines the order is needed to protect a victim and other family members, and an order can restrict the activities of the accused abuser to help prohibit further domestic violence.
- [What Cannot Be Included in a Prenuptial Agreement?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-cannot-be-included-in-a-prenuptial-agreement/): Prenuptial agreements, or prenups, have exploded in popularity in recent years. It's no wonder because many Californians want to protect their hard-earned assets as they head into marriage or lay out a financial roadmap for themselves.
- [What to expect at a DVRO hearing](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-to-expect-at-a-dvro-hearing/): If you are the victim of domestic violence, you might need to seek a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) from the courts. This order provides legal protections, as it can prohibit your abuser from seeing you or even contacting you, among other things. Having a DVRO in place can give you greater peace of mind that you and your children can be safe.
- [Why Do Women Initiate Divorce More Than Men?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men/): A 2015 study by the American Sociological Association revealed that women initiate 69 percent of all divorces in the U.S. Further, the same study found that college-educated women initiate divorce at an even higher rate of 90 percent. But why are women initiating divorces at such a high rate compared to men? There may be several reasons.
- [What Should Your Prenuptial Agreement Cover?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-should-your-prenuptial-agreement-cover/): Prenuptial agreements serve to protect specific rights of each spouse in a marriage should that marriage end in divorce. These legal agreements are entered into before the marriage and typically address areas such as each spouse's financial rights and responsibilities in the union, how assets will be allocated between them, and how any assets and property acquired during the marriage will be managed if there is a divorce.
- [Does My Child Have to Talk to the Minor’s Counsel?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/does-my-child-have-to-talk-to-the-minors-counsel/): Divorce can be hard on even the most mentally and emotionally healthy adults. The toll that it takes on children is often difficult for the adults in their lives to truly understand. Sometimes this is because the adults are so close to the situation themselves. Emotions in divorces and child custody cases can run high if the case is contentious, clouding sound judgment. It's not uncommon for parents and state employees to have varying opinions about what is best for a child in these situations. If this happens in your divorce or custody case, the court may appoint a minor's counsel. You may not think your child needs a lawyer, but the judge relies on a minor's counsel in some cases to determine what is best for the child.
- [Can I Write My Own Prenuptial Agreement?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/can-i-write-my-own-prenuptial-agreement/): If your wedding day is approaching, you might be completely wrapped up in your fairytale romance, dream day, or even how amazing your future will be together. While these are amazing feelings that should be relished, it's also a time to think about safeguarding your assets and protecting your future—even if you never imagine your marriage ending.
- [What will a Minor’s Counsel Recommend?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-will-a-minors-counsel-recommend/): When the court appoints Minor’s Counsel for your child in a custody matter, you might worry what that counsel will recommend to the court regarding your case. Keep in mind that the job of Minor’s Counsel is not to tell the court how to resolve custody matters but instead to present evidence they collected regarding the child’s situation and what may or may not be in their best interests. The judge will then take the information presented within the context of the entire custody case and make their decision.
- [How to Survive a Silver-Era Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-to-survive-a-silver-era-divorce/): A silver-era divorce refers to divorce after the age of about 50 (after a marriage of many years), and the complications can be overwhelming. While the matter of child custody is typically off the table, the matter of your financial rights can take on far greater proportions. If you are facing a silver-era divorce, seek the legal guidance of a practiced California divorce attorney who has an impressive range of experience successfully guiding complicated cases like yours toward optimal outcomes.
- [Preparing Your Child to Talk with Their Minor’s Counsel](https://www.irwinirwin.com/preparing-your-child-to-talk-with-their-minors-counsel/): Divorce is exceptionally difficult for everyone involved, but your child can experience even more stress and anxiety. After all, he or she has no control over what is happening and likely has no idea how divorce will affect his or her life. You naturally want what is best for your child, but divorce can pull you in many different directions all at once – and you may be left with nothing but not-great options. If the court appoints a minor’s counsel to your child, the intention is to help the involved judge support the child’s best interests, and your efforts to help him or her feel comfortable with the situation can go a long way toward increasing the likelihood that involving a minor’s counsel will be beneficial.
- [Three Strategies to Reduce Gray Divorce Financial Complexities](https://www.irwinirwin.com/three-strategies-to-reduce-gray-divorce-financial-complexities/): Divorce is plenty complicated enough. Between the emotional upheaval and the need to protect your financial rights throughout the process, it is a lot. If, however, you are facing a gray divorce, you can expect it to be even more challenging. Fortunately, there are three important strategies you can implement to help turn the heat down on the financial complexities you face, and a dedicated California divorce attorney with considerable experience successfully handling complicated gray divorce cases can help you with that.
- [Should You Use a Minor’s Counsel?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/should-you-use-a-minors-counsel/): As a parent, you want what’s best for your child. That can become challenging when you’re in the midst of an emotional divorce or custody case. To make sure that your child is heard and that your child’s best interest is being advocated for, it can be wise to request the appointment of a Minor’s Counsel.
- [I’m getting a divorce. Is my pension safe?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/im-getting-a-divorce-is-my-pension-safe/): If you’re ending your marriage, you’re likely wondering what will happen to your assets, specifically, your pension. Under California law, a pension earned by one partner is generally considered to be community property, which means that it may be subject to division during the divorce process. That may not be the ideal outcome for you or for your spouse. However, there are ways you can protect your pension throughout the divorce process. Here are some common ways you can protect your pension:
- [The Role of Minor’s Counsel in California](https://www.irwinirwin.com/the-role-of-minors-counsel-in-california/): Determining child custody is often not an easy process. When going through a child custody dispute as part of a divorce proceeding or parentage hearings, the court may use several tools to help figure out what is in the best interest of the child. One of these tools is the Minor’s Counsel.
- [COVID-19 Vaccine for Children: An Issue of Legal Custody](https://www.irwinirwin.com/covid-19-vaccine-for-children-an-issue-of-legal-custody/): We have all been hit hard by the global pandemic, and COVID-19 vaccines have managed to divide families, communities, places of work, and beyond. In fact, it is difficult to pinpoint a more divisive issue. As such, it’s not surprising that the matter of COVID-19 vaccines for children has worked its way into legal custody concerns. If you and your ex cannot come to an agreement on the critical matter of whether or not your children should be vaccinated, seek the professional legal counsel of an experienced California family law attorney today.
- [When Parents Disagree about Vaccinating Children against COVID-19](https://www.irwinirwin.com/when-parents-disagree-about-vaccinating-children-against-covid-19/): The COVID-19 pandemic has left us all with plenty of questions and very few absolute answers, but what we do know is that being vaccinated against COVID-19 offers considerable protection. Approval for children’s vaccines, however, was slower to materialize than the approvals for adult vaccines, which leaves many parents – even some who embraced the vaccines for themselves – hesitant to have their children vaccinated.
- [Using Mediation for Same-Sex Divorce](https://www.irwinirwin.com/using-mediation-for-same-sex-divorce/): While federal law recognizes same-sex marriages throughout the nation, same-sex divorces can be more complicated for a variety of important reasons. Divorce involves complex legal concerns that are coupled with significant emotional hurdles – with your parental and financial rights thrown into the mix – which makes the matter exceptionally challenging, to begin with. Same-sex divorce adds an additional layer of complication, but mediation is often a great option for divorcing couples, including same-sex couples.
- [Silver Era Divorce Is on the Rise](https://www.irwinirwin.com/silver-era-divorce-is-on-the-rise/): Silver era divorce – also known as gray divorce – is on the rise across the nation, and it comes with its own unique set of challenging complications. The term silver era divorce generally applies to divorcing couples who are fifty and older and who have been married for many years – just when they are expected to stay the course and remain married throughout their final years. If you are facing a silver era divorce, you need an experienced California divorce attorney who has a wealth of experience guiding cases like yours toward advantageous outcomes.
- [When Co-Parents Disagree about the Covid Vaccine for Kids, Who Decides?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/when-co-parents-disagree-about-the-covid-vaccine-for-kids-who-decides/): Being a parent means wanting the best for your children. However, parents, especially those who are co-parenting, don't always agree on what is best. Sometimes they can agree to disagree and move on with their lives. Other times the issue may not be a significant one in one parent's mind, so they acquiesce with what the other parent wants.
- [How Divorce Differs for LGBTQ Couples](https://www.irwinirwin.com/how-divorce-differs-for-lgbtq-couples/): Many California communities embrace a more progressive way of life, which includes breaking the chains of traditional gender roles. This is evident in marriage, primarily same-sex marriages. These unions are often more egalitarian than conventional opposite-sex marriages since work can't be divided in accordance with traditional gender roles. However, this isn't the magic potion to making a marriage last forever. LGBTQ couples face divorce, just as same-sex couples do. While they often report being happier in relationships, some of their marriages still end in divorce. Even still, their divorces can be quite different from those in heterosexual marriages.
- [Same-Sex Divorce Financial Challenges](https://www.irwinirwin.com/same-sex-divorce-financial-challenges/): As of 2013, same-sex marriage was recognized in California, and the Supreme Court of the United States (SCOTUS) made same-sex marriage legally recognized in all 50 states in 2015. Since then, many same-sex couples have solidified their relationships by getting married, which also means that some same-sex couples will also file for divorce.
- [What Unique Issues Do LGBTQ Couples Face in Divorce?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-unique-issues-do-lgbtq-couples-face-in-divorce/): Now that same-sex marriage has been legal in California for several years, some LGBTQ couples who got married are filing for divorce. Same-sex couples face the same challenges in marriage as any other married couple - and perhaps more. Unfortunately, they face the same challenges as opposite-sex couples in divorce - and perhaps more.
- [What Are “Gray Divorces,” and Why Are They Increasing?](https://www.irwinirwin.com/what-are-gray-divorces-and-why-are-they-increasing/): While the divorce rate can be thought of as stable in the United States, it is on the rise in one segment of the population.  Adults above the age of 50 have experienced a rise in their rate of divorce. This is the phenomenon that is known as a “gray divorce.” The recent decision of Bill Gates and his wife to end their long marriage shone a media spotlight on this trend and brought coverage of the increase in gray divorces.
- [Reasons Behind Same-Sex Divorces](https://www.irwinirwin.com/reasons-behind-same-sex-divorces/): While same-sex marriages are now fully legal, thanks to the Supreme Court’s decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, the unfortunate byproduct of more unions is now more divorces. Same-sex divorces will have the same legal issues and considerations as any other marriage. The law applies just the same.

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I am grateful to have found Megan and cannot recommend her services highly enough! If you're looking for a team that is compassionate, dedicated and highly skilled. Megan and Kelsey are outstanding. Five stars all the way! Posted on Jose carlos Hernandez Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I am very happy with your service for we accomplished what we wanted and Jackie is an excellent attorney Posted on 1-Tom-Plumber Anaheim Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Top-notch service. Posted on n b Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I've known the team at Irwin & Irwin for years and they’re honestly some of the best in the business. Super knowledgeable, professional, and genuinely care about the people they help. If you’re looking for a divorce lawyer in Fullerton who knows their stuff and will actually take the time to listen, you've found the right people. Posted on Michelle Garcia Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Jacquelina Uberin was my lawyer. I had a wonderful experience and highly recommend this law firm to anyone going thru custody issues. I came in with the facts, but had no time to prepare paper work, serve the other party, or respond to the other parties RFO.
She was knowledgeable about family law practices, and what the judge wants to see and hear. They are no-nonsense, straight forward about pricing, and communicated with me very well throughout our process. At the end, we got the results we were looking for. Our family is very happy, and will be referring them to anyone in need of these types of services. Will also be keeping her card handy if I'm ever in another situation that I feel I can't handle on my own. Posted on Yudi Aguilar Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Attorney Megan Thompson was absolutely amazing! She was attentive to my concerns, my doubts, and answered all my questions. Her professionalism and clear instructions were crucial in my extremely emotional and fought divorce process. I’m so grateful I had Mrs. Thompson as my attorney. Her guidance and exceptional representation gave me the peace of mind I needed in my difficult divorce process. Thank you for all the help and support. Posted on david moreno Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I was stuck in a divorce going nowhere with a mediator with no end in sight. I hired this firm and was represented by Megan. She and all of the staff were wonderful to deal with. It is worth paying the money and having an attorney to represent you. My divorce is completed because of the work Megan and her team put in. Thank you for all your help Posted on Mayra Iniguez Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I highly recommend Chelsea Pistone. She is honestly an amazing attorney and I fully trust her. I have been sending individuals to her and despite going through a challenging time, she has been very helpful and supportive. Load more
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